You're in charge - strip me to my briefs and put me over your knee and spank me till squirming before lowering my briefs and exposing my ass - face down, ass up in the air - it's yours to turn red - pleading doesn't stop you - again, you are in charge. Afterward, position me face down, spread my cheeks, lube me up and insert the tube and force me to take the whole bag - if I don't, we start from the beginning, back over your knee. Weekly sessions required - you set the days and times to arrive for my punishment session. It's all about giving up control to you and being disciplined as described above.